Self

Human fate ubahnya not like the wheels rotate. Sometimes he
above, but at the time suddenly is below. Day
This may be someone eager to enjoy the gift of glory. Live
full gelimang award, honor, and praise from fellow
because human wealth, title, and clasped in his hands. Akan
but, day after tomorrow he might fall into terpuruk reptilian beings
dina.

Lifestyle berlumuran stigma, so that to step over any feet,
reprimand, reprobation, contempt, and cemoohan always menimpuki sekujur
body. The people who used to honor and with mengalunginya
sanjung puji menjauhinya has been far, far away. Stay own it
a life without self. Fortunately when all
only "just enough" test from God, and realize fully, so that
He also became expert examination be thankful when the troops came disaster
flagellate.

However, very unlucky indeed if all of that is no more curse
God created the world so that he comes terlena, so he does not
have the price of living in the world. Meanwhile, make the coming disaster
himself does not really have a longer life in the world price. Both in
view of man and in his view. Self is
shockingly expensive goods that are purchased will not be able to
money.

However, unfortunately, people who have been intoxicated with their wealth, title, and
position, it is thought that the price will come when the self -
all the worldly finery clasped tightly in hand. In fact, by the
God, that is the materialistic spirit of the self-akan
anyone. According to Prof. Emil Salim, one of the five nations that have been
terasuki character kapitalistik. First, everything is measured
with the material. Second, the ravenous, greedy, and never feel satisfied
in meeting the needs of self.

Third, the ruler mumpung. Fourth, individualistic or just want
be himself. And fifth, only berkalkulasi
fortunately loss. If we have been involved terasuki character like this,
then self-destruction and live waiting time. What are the factors
is not self? Shame and reluctant reply
service-minded people is a good two of the four characters
a very negative potential terpuruknya make it self-glory.

No shame
This is the first factor that can destroy potential price
ourselves. Once a brazen, two rhinoceros, he does not
akan never ashamed of his life when a burden for others.
At home, in the office, and in the community environment it is only
a burden because he is always the hand to tadahkan
other people. When to go to school or to the office, she is very happy
search for lodging.

la so enjoy motorcycle or car seat without the slightest of friends
terlintas in to reply to benaknya services, or buy gasoline
mencucikan kendaraannya, for example. Him alive, for many years
numpang participate in-law's house, but it all Go with a light,
without thinking at all to participate in paying electricity, telephone,
tap water or a day-to-day dipakainya. Youth who have graduated
school, looking for hard working, but the day-to-day sit
hunker, while smoking cigarettes in order to stem isap it, the money
buyers get it from parents.

Anyone who lives only for the hand of people expect to reach
others without a willingness to give something to the people
other, then whatever he sehebat, human-human parasite such
will never have any value. Islam teaches, our self -
must be maintained with a vengeance. God is not possible to forget Mahakaya
against the needs of His servants. Too many hopes dar
beings, much like what is in the hands of others;
all this will only make rontoknya prestige and glory of self -
us.

True, we have some deficiency that makes us
need the help of other people. However, the things that we must
remember the good things is that every time we become a burden for
other people, then we shall have to fight tooth and nail for it to be
alleviate the burden of other people semampu us. Study to shame
enjoy the things that we not be right. Because, without this we
will never have any in the price of living in the world
it.

Nothing reply budi
Reply to the moral good of others have done against us,
actually not a difficult matter. However, not really
many people who have the willingness and ability of this kind.
In fact, when someone really needs help. We are so
mengiba serious because the very people willingly give hope
ministration. However. terpecahkan such problems, we shall soon
melupakannya seems the way it came out by itself.

One mild example only. When the pain we usually go immediately to
doctor for treatment. However, what happens after the disease sirna
of the body? We shall soon be lost again with the press of day-to -
day. Almost never terlintas in our minds to
lift the receiver, or simply write a letter to
to thank the doctor. "I have not
given the thousands of rupiah for treatment services, "it is
most commonplace we say.

In fact, there is a saying, "Because indigo setitik, damaged susu
sebelanga. "For many years someone has our support. from
originally an unemployment, we diberinya employment.
Needs we are so blessed tercukupi given rewards.
Sometimes we neglect, may sometimes also take the opportunity
not to be our rights. However, we do not make the sack of
job. What happens then?

When a person is something that makes us feel
tersakiti, then immediately hilanglah all that good for this
he provided. A circle in the mind is the deterioration
been made to us that, even if it may be only one time.
Also not possible, it is only a misconception. Nah,
Can self pertahankan when we have such characters?
Sanggupkah we change the negative perception of other people
is caused by disparagement of our service people?
Let us in renungkan-in! Allah knows best bisshawab.

Many When We learn, ... ... ... ..

Many When We learn, ... ... ... ..


I learned
What I consider best, not necessarily the best of them.
And vice versa, the best of us do not necessarily senangi.
Keep grateful to him for all the favors and karuniaNya.
Humans can only continue to pray and try to get the best of

I learned
Seberat any trial given by it, will ultimately make us a man who is responsible and more useful.
Syukurilah all anugerahNya with a sincere heart and genuine.
Everything happens, happens 4 a reasons.

I learned
That manhood is more related to how much experience that we have and what we learned from this experience, and has less related to how many years we age.

I learned
Although we do not think there is more we can give and do, when a friend of woe and need us, we will always find a way to power and continue to help.

I learned
Do not compare yourself with us and cares of other people.

I learned
That background & environment affect me personally, but we remain responsible & determine our own future.

I learned
That I must be responsible for what they have to do, no matter how we feel.

I learned
That I have the right to anger, but that does not mean I can apply at will without my memiki rkan others.

I learned
That I have to choose whether the attitudes and emotions or attitudes and emotions that take me away ...

I learned
That it is not important what I have, but it is important that this is who I actually ....

I learned
Do not judge people's appearance alone, it can be deceptive.
Kenalilah people talk and more depth.
Each person has a surplus and the respective good, although there is no perfect person in the world.

I learned
More difficult time in which the visible and not a sincere friend.

I learned
That two men can see an object the same, but sometimes from a different perspective ....

I learned
That I can not change the person I care about, but it all depends on their own ....

I learned
That takes many years to build trust and only a few moments just to menghancurkannya ...

I learned
That does not matter how bad the doldrums, the world did not stop just because of my grief ...

I learned
Only 2 people because of different opinions and does not look intimate, it does not mean they do not love each other, & faithful love.
And just because they are always seen eye to eye and intimate, it does not mean they always love each other, love each other & faithful.

I learned
Sincere friendship that always grow even though separated by a distance that far. Mela hirkan some true love ...

I learned
That if someone does not show concern as I want, does not mean that he does not love me ....

I learned
That I can not force other people love me.
I can only show & do something for the people I care about ... it's up to them next.